How to Forgive When Forgiving is Hard

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I have been wrestling with this thing for a while now. Namely, my sense of justice, and my need to repay. I many times feel that the only way I can forgive is if the wrongful party is sorry. Truly sorry. Repentant even. FYI- I am fully aware that I am, in fact, not a god.

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I write poetry — and the occasional article on love/relationships, life, women, self-care, Blackness, and books.

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Rachel K. Gause

Rachel K. Gause

I write poetry — and the occasional article on love/relationships, life, women, self-care, Blackness, and books.

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